The orgasms my husband gives me are so, so much better than the orgasms I can give myself. When I’m masturbating, once it starts feeling great I always come within like three minutes. I tell myself I’ll make it last longer, to try to get a more intense orgasm, but I just can’t get anything nearly as intense as what I get from him. I think it’s partly…
I used to drink quite a lot to get myself to relax, but it always ended up backfiring: I would push myself too far and then be distressed for days afterward. Recently, I’ve started trying something different. I’ve started smoking weed again, and I find it helps me unwind in a nicer way than alcohol did: I feel present in my body and less anxious about the prospect of intimacy. I am currently working on…
My girlfriend and I are two women in our early-20s, and we’ve been together for nearly two years. Our relationship is mostly great, except for one thing: Over the past six months, the quality of our sex life has dropped dramatically. My girlfriend developed really bad tendonitis in both of her wrists very suddenly. It makes it difficult for her to do a lot of things she used to enjoy…
On an episode of the podcast one of you once made an off-hand reference to there being a technique for oral on a soft penis. I think about this all the time! My partner and I will often start out that way when we first start messing around, and sometimes I’ll wake him up that way. When I told him about this to see if he had any ideas he was basically like, “Nope, great job, no notes,” but the idea…
My husband and I (I’m also a male) have tried ethical nonmonogamy a couple of times. Each time ended with not the best results. Whether it was from not finding/matching with someone on an app, being ghosted, or one of us being attracted to someone while the other is not. It just never seems to work out. We did have one person over only for it to end with a bad taste…
My husband wakes me up in the middle of the night wanting sex. I struggle to fall back to sleep afterward and have told him so. I wake up very early for work each day, so the fact that he continues to awaken me troubles me because I am not getting adequate sleep. When I bring this up, he claims I wake him up and that he is trying to satisfy my sexual needs. I feel he is gaslighting me, but he continues…
